Nonku Williams, a reality TV star and businesswoman, is leaving the Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD), which signifies the end of an important chapter in her life.
Citing the negative effects of the show’s toxic atmosphere on her mental health and general well-being, Nonku wrote in a heartfelt social media post on Sunday that she has decided to leave the reunion and the show.
She reflected on her journey with raw honesty, stating: “After much reflection, I’ve made the difficult decision not to return to the show and to distance myself from the reunion. It’s not an easy choice, but it’s one I must make.”
Show’s destructive tendencies
“Watching myself on screen, I’m confronted with a reality that’s difficult to accept,” she wrote, acknowledging that she struggled with the person she saw on screen.
“The woman I see isn’t someone I recognise or respect.”
She also admitted to her part in the drama of the show, but she cited the larger dynamics as a major reason for leaving.
“I’ve played a role in shaping this narrative, but I’m also a product of the show’s dynamics,” she wrote, describing the relentless pursuit of drama, the rivalry, the gossip, and the put-downs as a ‘toxic cycle’ that has worn her down.
Looking to the future, Nonku is committed to concentrating on her obligations to her community, her faith, her children, and herself.
“I want to make a difference, to leave a positive mark on the world. But this show, with its destructive tendencies, isn’t the platform for that,” she said.
Nonku prioritises her mental well-being
She underscored her resolve to put her mental well-being first and surround herself with positive people, saying: “I’m choosing to take care of myself.
“I’m choosing to be authentic, to be true to myself, and to live a life that reflects my values.”
As a mother, Nonku is committed to setting an example for her kids, teaching them the value of compassion, empathy, and kindness.
She also conveyed a strong sense of obligation to her community and faith, hoping to make a difference, be a force for good, inspire and uplift others, and be a light in the darkness.
“I’m choosing to break free from this cycle, to seek a path that uplifts and inspires. As I close this chapter, I hope my story can serve as a testament to the power of self-awareness, courage, and redemption.”
